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32 year old Pagan female who lives in Florida with her guy and two cats, loves Disney, reads fanatically, tinkers in photography and believes growing up is overrated.

Deals with several chronic health concerns and worked part-time as an Admin Assist until the company closed in November 2009. Looking once again for a part time job. Also runs her own small business, PhoenixFire Designs.

 
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Reminder...

There are people on the net that have nothing better to do with their time then be nasty to other people online. They post rude comments, spend hours a day talking about sites they hate so much, that they well, spend hours a day talking about them. (lame) They mock the owners and posters for their opinions and their right to free speech. They expect everyone to fit into their narrow-minded little world view or else they throw a temper tantrum.

To these people I say
grow up
.

Here's a bit of info people...the web is a HUGE place. If you don't like what I say here, or who I am, or what I do, or talk about, or what I look like, or the color of my hair, or whatever asinine thing you dwell on, go somewhere else. It's really, really easy. Honest. You just click the little "x" in the corner of your browser and *poof* the offending, big, mean and nasty site has disappeared.

I pay for this site. It's mine. That means I can use it for whatever the hell I want to. Don't like it if I'm bitching about something in my life? Oh fucking well. Go somewhere else. Think I'm stupid for expressing my thoughts? Too fucking bad, don't read them. Somewhere along the line, someone forgot this simple fact: Live and let live Don't like me, cool, fine, whatever, I don't care. This journal is NOT for you. It's for me. I'm not in it for popularity or fame or anything stupid like that. I write it because I need to write and express myself and get things out of my head sometimes. So read or don't, it doesn't matter, but don't waste my time (or yours) bitching about it.

*gets off soapbox*



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Monday, April 26, 2010

NEW BLOG LOCATION
I started this journal in January of 2001 and for the past nine years have used Blogger to update and publish my blog. Sadly, this is no more. Google bought Blogger a few years ago and has now decided to stop supporting FTP updates. They want me to put my blog on their servers, out of my control, despite the fact I own for and pay for a domain of my own and much rather keep things under my control, thankyouverymuch.

So, it is with a sad heart I must bring this particular blog to an end.

NO WORRIES THOUGH! THE BLOG CONTINUES!

I've installed and configured a brand new blog. It now uses Wordpress software in order to update it. It's still under my control and on my domain like I require. But there's a very slight URL change.

The new location is:
http://www.giveneyestosee.com/blog


It's already up, live and running. This old location will stick around for archive and posterity, but will NO LONGER BE UPDATED.

Please update your bookmarks, favorites and links to the new URL.

This will be my last entry here on this location and will thus remain for anyone finding this blog in the future to know where I went.

It's tough to say goodbye to an old friend but I hope you'll all love the new look, style and functionality of my new Wordpress blog just as much as this one's probably grown on you here.

Thanks for nine exciting, frustrating, informative, soul-searching, and all-around interesting years. See you on the other side!


Friday, April 23, 2010

Friday

Itís a trilogy of fun this morning: my head hurts, my stomach hurts and I didnít sleep worth a damn. I really needed another half hour or so to address the stomach issues but I was already 10 minutes late, so I didnít really have MORE time to deal with it. Iím not sure how Iím going to make the entire day though.

And last night, my subconscious decided it would be loads of fun to give me nightmares. All night long, dreams about people I love dying and me being left alone. Awesome. That sort of shit scares me already, normally as it is. I would lose my apartment and have no place to go with no money whatsoever if something happened. Even more so now that Randís gone because he at least had a house with a guest bedroom. But if something happened to LoveÖIíd have no place to go.

I am so not ready to face the day today. I so donít want to be here. (Which is why Iím stalling and writing up an entry instead of making my calls.) Iím so on the edge of tears right now, itís absurd. Even typing this, I canít think about it too much or Iím going to cry. Today feels like one of those real, ďIím going to totally break downĒ days. These tenuous threads Iím clinging to are so frayed they canít hold anymore.

Anyway, what else is new? Iím broken. Iím damaged. Iím exhausted. And I donít want to face the world. Broken record these days.

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Thursday, April 22, 2010

Birthday Info
Because everyone keeps telling me I'm not allowed to be sad about my birthday (even though I am) and that I deserve to have a nice birthday despite still being pretty heavy in grief, anxiety and panic right now, here's the pertinent info. Do with it or not as you will.

Date
May 16th

Turning
33

Address:
M. Turner
PO BOX 1484
Eflers, FL 34680
USA

Amazon wishlist
http://www.amazon.com/exec/obidos/wishlist/397IKAEGOJ51E/

Crafty, Handmade Items Wishlist
http://www.wists.com/PhoenixFireDesigns

Some items on there are totally absurd (cell phone, countertop kiln, PS3) and some are less (books, dvds, etc.) I tend to use it half as a practical wishlist and half as a pipedream list. The crafty wishlist has items I've wisted that are mostly handmade (like hand knit socks, or sewn items, etc.) I do a lot of crafty swaps and such and really enjoy handmade goodies as well, hence the separate list for it.

My birthday is just really making me sad this year because I don't really have† a lot of friends in person and so it feels lame and stupid thinking about my birthday and it's tough having lost such a close friend.

Whatever. I don't know. The whole thing is stupid this year anyway.

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Wednesday, April 21, 2010

Thankfully I woke up this morning feeling better. Most of the pain and pressure in my forehead had gone away. It had felt like I had a golfball lodged there and the pain was relentless. Nothig helped. Yesterday it was probably about an 8 on a scale of 1-10 and today more like a 3 or 4. So big improvement. My nose is a little sniffly but I think that's a good thing since that's the crap coming out. I was even able to sleep pretty well last night. Still worn out a little but overall feeling better.

I'm glad it was better today because it seemed like nothing was helping yesterday and I was getting worried about how I was going to afford a dr appointment to get antibiotics.

So back to work tomorrow. I didn't go today because Wednesday is my day off. It will be weird going back as it always is when you're off and have been sick but it should be ok.

Thanks for the suggestions. I think it definetly helped. Anyway just wanted to give a quick update. Watching Playoff hockey right now so I'm going to get back to that.

25 days til my birthday. Still bummed about it more then anything. : ( oh well don't want to get all sad about that right now.

Ta.

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Tuesday, April 20, 2010

I'm pretty sure I have a sinus infection. I've never had one before so Sunday when I started having pain in my forehead above my right eyebrow I just thought I was maybe a low-grade migraine in a slightly different place then normal. Pain on my right side for migraines is very common for me, though it's normally in the temple or behind the eye.

Sunday, Monday and now today it's still there and last night I didn't sleep at all. The pain was much worse all night and I have been alternating between roasting and freezing and just sweating all night. I am normally very cool temperature wise so for me to be sweating means a fever.

Google confirms my symptoms pretty much exactly as sinisitus or, acute sinus infection. Stress, seasonal allergens and other factors can be a cause. Pollen has been brutal for a couple weeks now and well I think stress is a given.

Of course with no health insurance I don't have access to get an antibiotic and won't have cash for a walk-in until at least Friday when we get paid. I am going to try the home care advice I found and just hope it will be enough.

Anyone with any tips or experience with sinus infections, I'd love to get your feedback on what might help. This is new to me so I'm open to suggestions.

Sucks being sick and this pain my my forehead is miserable. With the no sleeping and fever I also had to call into work. I am heading back to bed now but ugh...not sure how much luck I'm going to have sleeping seeing as it didn't work at all last night but I have got to try. I feel like I've been run over by a bus.

Any suggestions appreciated. Thanks.

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Saturday, April 17, 2010


Horse
Originally uploaded by PhoenixFireDesigns

There is a horse tied up to a streetlamp in the parking lot of the supermarket. This is not something you see often around here!

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Friday, April 16, 2010

T-30 Days

Normally, today, being one month until my birthday would be a day
where I get silly and post links to my amazon wishlist and excitedly
remind people about my upcoming celebration, give out my post office
box addy, etc....this year though? I just find I'm not terribly
excited. I don't really care. I'm still too emotional, upset,
grieving, panicked and otherwise disengaged to want to celebrate
anything. Not to mention, it will mark the first "holiday" of sorts
since Rand passed. It will be a big, obvious empty place in my
birthday without my best friend there.

So it's 30 days until my birthday and I really wish it just was
already over. I don't care about the number this time around, I just
don't want to face trying to be happy and failing.

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T-30 Days

Normally, today, being one month until my birthday would be a day
where I get silly and post links to my amazon wishlist and excitedly
remind people about my upcoming celebration, give out my post office
box addy, etc....this year though? I just find I'm not terribly
excited. I don't really care. I'm still too emotional, upset,
grieving, panicked and otherwise disengaged to want to celebrate
anything. Not to mention, it will mark the first "holiday" of sorts
since Rand passed. It will be a big, obvious empty place in my
birthday without my best friend there.

So it's 30 days until my birthday and I really wish it just was
already over. I don't care about the number this time around, I just
don't want to face trying to be happy and failing.

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Thursday, April 15, 2010

New Glasses!
Lookie who FINALLY after 2 months got her new glasses last night!



(Plus you can see my sorta-new haircut as well.)

Off to work!


Tuesday, April 13, 2010

Weekend Recap
In which our Heroine goes to Disney and finds a pearl (while her Hero gets ill); yet again fails to get any meaningful sleep and thus misses another day of work; talks to her boss about the future of said job - and other harrowing adventures!

Saturday April 10th Love's brother, Love and I were supposed to go to WDW. It was the first weekend after of our Spring Break blackout period and with life being as it's been, we all needed a day away. Sadly, Love's brother wound up having to work, so it was just the two of us. We got off to a late start as both of us were tired and having some grumbly tummies, but we got on the road around 11am.

Love drove the first 40 minutes or so but was really tired and felt like he was nodding off. So we found an exit with food and pulled off. Love got an Arby's sandwich and I took over driving the rest of the way. This was perhaps not the best idea as we'll see later.

So we finally arrive at Epcot first around 12:30pm. We wander around the countries a bit, I have a pastry in France and we make our way to Japan. They have this thing called, "Pick a Pearl" where you get to pick the oyster and they open it with a whole ceremony and everything. Love always says I should do it but I say, "no" or "next time" because while it looks fun, I never want to spend the money. Well, this time, he made me do it to cheer me up.

I guess these are called "Akoya" pearls and are regarded as the finest cultured pearls in the world. The average is 6.5mm. Mine? A giant 8mm! They were very excited and all said mine was the largest find of the day. It's very lovely. We picked out a sterling silver cherry blossom setting and they set it for me right there in about 20 minutes. It's only $17 (tax included) for the Pick A Pearl in Japan and the settings range from about $20 on up. So it was a small splurge but it was so much fun and I am so in love with my beautiful pearl - and proud of having the largest of the day! - that Love was right; it was worth it.





Now of course, I want to do it again but if I got a little dinky pearl, it'd be a disappointment after getting such an awesome one my first time out!

After that fun, I took some pics of the butterfly garden. Always a favorite of mine during the Flower and Garden Festival.





Lots of monarchs this time, but man it makes me long for a camera with a much longer zoom lens! 3x zoom makes it hard to get in close enough to the butterflies without them flittering away.

After that, we went over to Magic Kingdom. By this time, however, Love wasn't feeling so well. In fact, he lost the probably poor-choice Arby's sandwich while I was taking butterfly photos. We got to MK and I was hungry so I got us late lunch/early dinner (it was about 4:30pm) and then Love had to call it a day. He got sick once more before the drive home. Boo. So the day started off fun but sadly, didn't end quite as well.

Sunday, April 11th - Love was still ill from the day before so we just ran a few errands and called it a day. He didn't even go down to his parents for the weekly Sunday morning breakfast.

Monday, April 12th - I didn't sleep worth a damn and by the time Love was leaving for work (around 6:30am), I knew it was going to be another one of the "unable to face the day" days. Ever since this crazy anxiety/panic attacks thing started, some days I just literally can't function. I feel like I'm drowning and there's nothing I can do about it. We're trying to find someone who I can talk to that will work on a sliding scale or something but so far, no luck. And I certainly don't have $150/hr. So I had to call into work again and pretty much spent the day sleeping.

Tuesday, April 13th - First off, today is 1 month since Rand passed. Which made it even more fun then normal. I laid there this morning, looking at the clock around 7:30am, thinking about a month ago we were getting the call at that exact same time. It's weird because in some ways, it feels like so long ago, and in others, it feels like it just happened.

So anyway, got up and went into work today as best I could. And I'm about an hour and a half into my day (so it's around 10:30am) when my boss Erik comes over and asks me to come talk with him. Of course, I'm positive this is it; I'm getting canned. I've missed a lot of days the past month because of not sleeping, migraines, panic attacks, etc. and I know it's just really bad.

Turns out, he was just worried about me. I broke down crying - because I'm stupid like that and I can't help but cry when I talk about these things - and told him about the anxiety/panic attacks, the lack of sleeping, etc. Instead of being angry, he was really understanding. He told me I can take as much time as I needed and if I ever needed to go home early, that was fine too. He really hopes I can get to talk to someone and was really nice about it all. Said these things take a long time to get over and I'm doing a great job and don't worry because I'm not going to lose my job. (I confessed, as a blubbering idiot I was so worried about losing my job because I was being such a flake but I'm not normally like this and I'm so sorry about being such a flake and I've never dealt with panic and anxiety before and it's making me a mess and did I mention I was sorry...?)

So that's one huge relief.

My co-worker and trainer, Janet talked to me after my talk with Erik and she reassured me too that I was awesome, my emotions being all over the place are totally normal, that I wasn't going anywhere and they are still all glad to have me.

Whew.

I've really been stressing that on top of everything else since I really didn't want to lose the job but being so stressed out and panicking and not sleeping and such means some days I just literally can't function like a normal human being. At least I know I can take a day (or more, Erik even said I can take as much time as I need and to focus on myself and getting better first and foremost) when I need it.


So...yeah. That's the last few days. Oh, for those keeping track I still do NOT have my new glasses yet. Yes, I ordered them February 19th and have received four incorrect/flawed/unwearable pairs thus far, made six trips over there and my next replacement pair "is on rush order" since March 15th. Yeah, color me pissed. Did I mention the crack in my right lens is now about an inch long? I am SO going to be asking for my money back on the pair when they finally get around to making them correct. This is beyond absurd.

Alright, time to make dinner. Started this like an hour and a half ago so probably should do something else productive now. Just haven't really had time to write up entries and this probably should have been divided up into a few, but...there you have it.

Tomorrow I'm off so that's good and we'll see how the rest of the week plays out.

Ta for now.


Saturday, April 10, 2010

Well today was a bit of a do-over. Poor Love has been ill all day and we're heading home. Shame as its cool out right now. Text msg from M

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Late start today and Love's brother couldnt make it but Love and i are now at epcot. Pic posts sadly not working. Ttfn! Text msg from M

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Friday, April 09, 2010

It's finally Friday. Of course yesterday all day I kept hoping it was
my last day of the week but life doesn't wrap up as neatly as what we
wish it would be. Made I in both yesterday and today which feels like
climbing mount Everest. This morning it's all dark, gloomy and raining
which makes it the kind of day you don't want to get out of bed.
(Granted I almost never want to get up out of bed theses days but
rainy mornings are even worse.)

I didn't sleep the night before last so last night I took a little
Benedryl to help me sleep more. It helped but I'm still really tired
and worn out.

Talked to so many clients on the phone at work yesterday my throat is
actually a litttlr sore today. Part of he reason I'm stalling this
morning and writing this entry is because I don't really feel up to
more chatting.

We were suposed to have a meeting this morning and I was looking
forward to wasting an hour but someone called in and now we're short
so I don't think it will happen.

Tomorrow, Love, his brother and I are going to hit Disney. We can all
use a mental health getaway day. It's sadly supposed to still be busy
with Spring Break kids but it's been a month or so since we've been
and I'm looking forward to it anyway.

Blah. Ok I guess I should stop stalling and start calling. Can't
believe how slow my day is going so far and how many more hours are
left but....guess that's life.

Out for now.

Sent from my iPod


Monday, April 05, 2010

Monday morning. Stomach giving me problems. 15minutes late getting in
here and really, I needed longer but I didn't have it. I just am
really over being here. It's so dill and boring and corporate and I
dread everyday I have to show up. I should be working right now but
I'm stalling because I just don't want to be here. At all. Not even a
little. Not one tiny shred. I just want to go home and stop doing
this. I really just hate my job.

I'm so sad and overwhelmed and it feels like hours of Hell ahead of me
to be here today. I don't want to be here.

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Friday, April 02, 2010

Back at work this morning after being sick the last two and a half
days with a cold. Still stuffy and my voice is pretty shot (very
unhelpful when your entire job is being on the phone!) plus I'm still
really tired and runover feeling but I'm here and trying.

Just heard from Love that Rand's parents are letting the bank take the
house back. They took the last stuff out yesterday when Salvation Army
picked up everything left. They also came and got the kittie but it's
really not going well apparently. We will also try to take one of the
girls - Carra - since she was Rand's cat and is clawed and needs a
loving home if she can't get along with his moms cats. Of course there
is no guarentee that she will get along with ours either.

Blah. It's been a Hell of a week and an even worse month+ now. Anyway
should get back to work. Just so not into it today. Tomorrow is a long
drive to my aunt's house over an hour away for a combo my sisters
birthday/Easter get together. Then Sunday we are having dinner with
Rand's family. So busy weekend.

Out for now.

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